Use your own mind. Stop allowing others to determine what you want to do. If everything you do is what someone else suggested for you to do, then you aren't being your authentic self, but you are being controlled by what others want from you.
Be who you truly want to become. God gave us all gifts and talents to use. Find out what your gift is and use it for the glory of God and to help mankind. Pray for an answer if you don't know quite yet what you should do.