Get rid of all bitterness. I know that he hurt you. He deserves punishment for bringing that woman into your bed. Oh My God. I thought it was everlasting love. Paul was my first and only real love. He brought out the best in me. He always made me laugh. We have so much in common, I Cynthia work as a Registered Nurse and Paul works as a Gynecologist.
We make good money and have a lovely 4 Bedroom spacious house near the beach. Were engaged to be married and the wedding is set for next year.
He both work crazy hours and that is to be expected in the Health Industry. We love our jobs and careers. We don't have any children right now but we are madly in love with each other. The problem is that I should not have allowed him to move in with me since I am a good christian woman, but since he loves me so much I just said let us put our money together and get a nice home for just the two of us and it is spacious enough if we had a child or two.
The problem is that he is not a christian but he does believe in God. I guess we aren't on the same page in that regard but he keeps saying that he will give it a try one day. Lately we have been working swing shifts to where when he gets home I am about ready to leave for work.
It happened when one day I came home early because I wasn't feeling well and to my surprise a woman was in our bed sleep. Oh My God I flipped out. I called him every name under the sun and asked him to remove her from our home and you better explain whats going on.
I mean how do you forgive such a scene. He literally got caught. How long has this been going on. Nevertheless, he asked me to forgive him. He said that since we had been working a lot of hours apart he got lonely because we haven't been intimate in about 3 months. I'm the christian trying to not fornicate too much but wait it out more until marriage but he isn't as strong as I am evidently.
He said that he will give his heart to the Lord and live right if I forgive him and give him another chance. I said I have to pray hard about this because I don't know if I can even trust him anymore. I know that he is a man with needs and isn't a christian and it is my fault for fornicating in the first place. I asked the Lord to forgive me but we have a house together and are engaged.
I can forgive him but he must prove himself by giving his life over to the Lord or I am not going to be able to trust him anymore. I love him and kind of put myself in this situation by not waiting on the Lord. I love him very much. Question!
What would you do in this situation?